How do you recover from a psychologically abusive relationship?

u feel as if u need him because he has kept u emotionally dependent on him for years, and its hard to loose even someone who hasn't been that good to u in the first place. but your self worth doesn't come from him, or the relationship, your self worth comes from how god feels about u. when u seek god and find him u will see that u have alot of self worth. u can recover by going to a self help therapy group, where others like yourself will be there to uplift u and show u the way out of this. it does take time even if it was an abusive thing to get past it, u will find yourself missing him even though he doesn't deserve your love. if u are financially okay and can pay your bills and maintain your house, your one of the lucky ones. he robbed u of your self worth and it will take some time to get it back, understand that its not your fault he treated u as he did, the problem was somewhere within his own heart and soul. pray to the lord and he will put the right helpers in your life so u will be able to move on. good luck.